Why don’t women just point to it and say "there it is and this is what you do"
Why do women suffer in silence without orgasms?
Know It All: I think you missed the point. All women complain that their male lovers have no idea where the clitoris is.
Perhaps you could explain where it is for the other men on the forum?
This is something I have wondered forever.
If my boyfriend isn’t doing something I like he will know it, and I’ll tell him how to fix it.
-Connor
November 21st, 2009 at 4:12 am
Around 20% of women do NOT know what an orgasm is, let alone what/where the clitoris is.
It’s not a man’s RESPONSIBILITY to teach them anatomy.
"All women complain" ?
They can’t expect vibrators to know where the clit. is. 
It was only the FIRST time when I had sex that the woman had to guide my finger to where it was. Of course, I knew what it was, but didn’t know where it was. It has been a nose-dive ever since.
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http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Clitoris
November 21st, 2009 at 4:29 am
Good question, I don’t know. Perhaps they are ashamed of their bodies? It is quite a production, though.
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November 21st, 2009 at 4:46 am
It is not hard to find at all. I’ve done it with my eyes closed so so much for the elusive little devil.
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November 21st, 2009 at 5:19 am
We just like to complain to you so we know you are listing to us.
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November 21st, 2009 at 5:49 am
I alway have said where it is I like it and what I like being done since I was about 16. I dont know any girls that dont say but I have pretty mouthy friends lol
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If a mam doesnt know where the clit is by 18 then he has lived an extremely sheltered existence in my eyes
November 21st, 2009 at 6:15 am
I think this has faded out.
Bizarre but true: My Mamma had no idea where exactly it was, I just found this out a few years ago when we were talking sex. Even though she’d had orgasms from it, as far as knowing where it was physically, she had no idea.
After talking with some older ladies and gents, seems this was just how things were. Most of them said they didn’t know until reading books about sex pretty recently. I was shocked.
I don’t know of anyone in my age range who doesn’t know where it is and what to do with it, but I know when we’re younger, women tend to not want to ask or direct much when it comes to sex. Some do/did, but most didn’t.
Probably why women in their 20s and over seem to enjoy sex more. Almost every girl I know said as a teen sex was something they did because they wanted to have it, but they didn’t find it too physically pleasurable. Crazy, eh?
I had to teach my first about it even though he was older than me and should’ve known better. I went for about a year though before I got tired of it and finally worked to change it. Teen years, silly, silly times <3
Even now though I hate to be direct and just say, "Do this". I’ll just let the sights and sounds guide him and hope he’s paying attention which usually works, or incorporate what I want him to do into the ‘dirty talk’ or a fantasy sesh if I wanna do something different and see if he digs it or not. I doubt I’ll ever be one of those people who can just bluntly ask for it.
Never was sure if it’s because I’m a woman, but wouldn’t be shocked at all if it were.
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November 21st, 2009 at 6:52 am
This is why I masturbate instead of having sex. I like my orgasms.
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November 21st, 2009 at 7:38 am
I’m sorry but my husband has never had problems finding out where the hell it is and never has. I don’t need to complain because it feels good being kissed down there no matter what. -giggles- No really though… it’s all good.
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November 21st, 2009 at 7:47 am
I think that very rarely happens, somebody would be an idiot not to point and explain. I’ve never had that problem. But like I said in the question yesterday sometimes you tell them repeatedly and they still can’t get it right, or so I heard.
Harriet
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November 21st, 2009 at 7:57 am
This is something I have wondered forever.
If my boyfriend isn’t doing something I like he will know it, and I’ll tell him how to fix it.
-Connor
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November 21st, 2009 at 8:27 am
Jesus Christ, will you just change your name to Jimmy the generalizer and be done with it? How would you feel if I asked "Why are gay men so feminine?" or "Why are all gay men good dancers?" or "Why do all gay men vote democrat?" I don’t even care what your question is at this point because you just sooo cheesed me off with your whiny a$$ opening statement. But I will say this–I have never, and will never fake an orgasm. It’s about as smart and productive as making sweeping general statements about an entire group of people
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November 21st, 2009 at 8:34 am
Hon, all het women are not complaining-if a guy can’t find it, we either tell them or quickly move on. Sometimes its just not worth the effort to even tell the guy (can you say, loser?) Yep, some women are not assertive, but wow, so are some men if they aren’t asking where it is either…or reading a book or looking at a magazine..jeez
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